
So how should you dress then? If you are a man, pants and a button down shirt and shoes would be nice. If you naturally wear a suit and are coming from work, that is fine; but if you are meeting on a weekend, dressing on a date in a suit would be a little odd. If you are a woman, you can dress in a blouse and a skirt for a date, or, if you are a feminist, you can wear pants on your date. Try not to show too much cleavage unless you want to entice your date to touch your boobs. A lot of cleavage on a first date makes you look cheap. A pushup bra, on the other hand, can make you look classy, especially under a tight sweater.

If there is doubt about what to wear or how to dress on your date, tell your date to dress casual, or however you like, to set the standard, so to speak. On later dates you can, depending on the activity you do, relax your dress code, unless you are dating a snooty woman, who will always want you dressed up.
The sad truth is that most large people face the same stumbling blocks dating back to you. They probably tried the bar scene and got tired of it or just decided he was not sure all. Maybe they have suffered a terrible blind dates, too. So what is there left? You can keep your fingers crossed and hope that you bump into someone special coffee corner, but the odds are against you.








