Most women who use technology-based meeting services are likely to be a married man some time in their dating site. Many women ask what they should do to protect them, and to be more attentive to identify married men. While they are not sure-fire ways to decipher if he is married, here are 11 tips that could help you detect a married man:
Tip # 1: He chose not to post a picture of himself online, or it displays an image that can be very dark and difficult to retrieve him out of the crowd. Most married men do not want their image that exists in everyone's eyes. They do not want the risk slim chance that someone they know could possibly recognize. Instead of posting their photos online, they can choose to email you a picture to your personal email address. This is much safer for them, because it is unlikely that you know that they know someone who could recognize their photo.
Tip # 2: It will probably be the one to initiate the first contact. Sites online meeting, it is very easy for both men and women to engage in a first contact. It may be a split between yourself from contact or humans from contact. But in most cases, the married man will send the first form of communication, whether a cat or a short e-mail message. Married men often use a brief introduction, then immediately ask questions to better understand your personality. They will very rarely say a lot about themselves and what they are like in the first communication to you. Some married men tend to have a "type" they are looking for, but most of them just look for someone who looks interesting for them. They may also be looking for someone who may seem very naive and trusting, and someone who could be easily manipulated. These details can be very difficult to verify for a married man who is new in the online dating world, but there are also professional married men "who do have experience with online dating and deception, and they just know the right questions to ask. The initial communications are shared what they use to decipher if you could be an easy target.
Tip # 3: It can be very irregular or erratic answers about his return to you. Obviously, men have married "family life", so they may not be as available online and get you to respond as quickly as men who are single and have a lot of free time on their hands . If it appears to meet at fixed times (for example 10 pm weekdays), and his answers are very irregular in the amount of days between e-mails, there is a possibility that he has a wife and maybe even d 'children at home who will take his time. It might also be that it is just a very busy with work or outside, or life events. But this detail should be closely monitored and reviewed at a meeting with a new person online.
Tip # 4: He asks for your phone number, but not give you the number. Married men usually ask for your phone number fairly quickly after the initial contact. He may use a line like "Hey, I would like to hear your voice on the telephone. Can I have your number?" If a man asks for your number, but does not offer its own in the same e-mail or instant message, you may not want to share your number with him at that time. It might be a better idea to write back, asking it shares its number with you first. Or you could choose to give it a number of cells instead (read this article). Whatever you decide to do, just be very careful about your first initial telephone conversation with him. If you chose to go ahead and give your number without her, make sure you ask his number when he does finally call you. Chances are that, if he is married, he is a calling you from another telephone from his home, then phone, or has a certain characteristic blocking that will stop you doing its number, if when you use the number of call-back feature on your phone (Or call waiting). Just because a man can give his phone number when requesting your own, does not necessarily mean he is married or has something to hide. It may just be one of those men who is very old, and refuses to have women who are first call. But if he is a believer by calling the woman first, it is more than likely that you say that when he responded to your request. It will no doubt also give you his number without any qualms. If this is his house number he gives you, then you are probably pretty safe to assume that he is likely not married.
Tip # 5: His appeals to you are very irregular, or at a set time. You can start making phone calls from him very often, or maybe calls are more irregular. Married men have to call you for their own convenience. They can choose to call you at the end of the week or on weekends, or they can call as soon as they get off work. They have to schedule their time around their married life for taking the time to call you. Married men who work nights tend to draw women while they are on break. This could be very late in the evening. Be very aware of the time he calls you. Ask yourself questions such as
1) Is it always feel about the same time he calls?
2) Do the frequent calls, or do they vary?
3) Where is he calling you? These are things like how to identify whether it might be leading a double life.
Tip # 6: It will only share his cell phone number with you. Most men who have nothing to hide will share their cell phone number and home with you. They want to be available for phone calls. If a man will not give you his cell number, and is not willing to share his home number with you, then you have to go up red flags. If he is married, then it is obvious he does not want to call you at home, because there is too much risk of his wife or children to learn about you. Watch for him to use as an excuse that it is never home, and that the cell is always on him, making it a "best way" to catch him.
Tip # 7: You have his cell number, but are constantly forced to leave a message. Again, it is a convenience thing for him. By leaving a message, it gives him the time to plan yet, he may return your call, more than likely, as it is with his wife or with someone he does not want to know that it's' have a case. You might even have to wait for hours before he is able to return your call, with some history of not having him on his cell phone or being in a place where he had no receipt. If it takes a little time for him to return your call, chances are it is busy with family or friends and do not feel safe to make a quick call to you. Moreover, it needs time to work on a story he can tell you about why he did not respond, or why it took so long to return your call.
Tip # 8: He will not share his surname with you. Married men tend to be very protective of themselves and who they can know their real names complete. They do not want to give their real surname of the fear that you can look in the local telephone directory, or even find them in the name of research online. If it is not prepared to give you his last name, especially after you have entered the stage of phone communication, another red flag should be on the rise. You should ask why it is that he will not tell his last name. Unfortunately, there are married men who use aliases and it is therefore all the more difficult to detect if it is married or not. Trust your instinct, and do some research of their names if they give you a name. You can even ask to see joked his "driving licence" picture. While it is true defensive while he may have something to hide (in addition to a bad driver's license photo).
Tip # 9: It is highly secretive about where he lives. In the first two dates, it is very understandable that neither party wants to share their home addresses. But once you begin to see the two from each other, this issue is definitely going to arise, especially if you have entered or are entering into an intimate relationship with him. He may insist he has a roommate and would much rather prefer to go to your place. It can also tell you that his house is simply not ready for the enterprise, which means that his maid had not shown up for weeks. But if he continues to walk around you see where they live, then chances are hiding something from you - like a woman!
Tip # 10: It does not reveal much information about himself or his family, and education. As you begin to communicate over the phone and in person, as you really want to know more about the other person and what kind of experience has crossed your partner. Married men will do just about anything on the sidelines in this conversation with you. They can turn the tables on you, and you do all they say about yourself, and try to make you talk, in order to turn attention away from them. Some men can just tell you that there is really nothing to tell, and they lead a boring life, they met up to you. They can even try to change the subject entirely, and you get focused on something completely different. Ladies, if he is unwilling to talk about himself and his family and where he grew up, and then it is definitely trying to hide something from you, if his past or his present.
Tip # 11: You never get the chance to meet his friends or family. When people are really interested in someone, they are extremely eager to share with you their friends and family. They want to show off to people that matter most to them. With married men, this is not the case for obvious reasons. They do not want you to meet their friends or family, and they do not want to meet you. You are an open secret in his life, and you must stay. Instead, you will find that you share your friends and family with him. When going out with other couples, they will be friends of yours and no sound. Being very aware of this aspect in your new relationship. If it is not prepared to allow you to respond, even to his friends, not to mention his family, then there is something wrong.
Conclusion Online dating is a great opportunity for singles to meet, but it is also a very practical method for married men to be used in order to target single women. Women have to be very careful about their online communication with the men to stay away from these losers. There are many risks that exist must recognize that women. Reunion of married men is one of those risks that women face when using an online dating service. Be smart and listen to your intuition of women when it comes to these men that you dating. To use this information in this article to help you stay safe from becoming a target for men who are married.
