A healthy relationship is one that is a partner of equal decisions with other partners. In the book "He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears Sabotage your relationship" authors Steven Carter and Julia Sokol offer advice on how to recognize the control issues in a relationship:
"Commitment means compromise. This means learning to live with and make equal decisions with someone else. If one partner is a controlling relationship, financial, emotional or otherwise, the partnership is uneven. So, try to understand the hidden evidence and how you try to control your relationships and how you allow yourself to be controlled. If control plays an important role in your life, you may want to consider d ' study its possible psychological origin. You May need professional help to protect you control the partners, May or you need advice on how to manage your own impulses to control. "(SOURCE: He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears sabotage your relationships, Steven Carter and Julia Sokol - in bookstores everywhere)
"Commitment means compromise. This means learning to live with and make equal decisions with someone else. If one partner is a controlling relationship, financial, emotional or otherwise, the partnership is uneven. So, try to understand the hidden evidence and how you try to control your relationships and how you allow yourself to be controlled. If control plays an important role in your life, you may want to consider d ' study its possible psychological origin. You May need professional help to protect you control the partners, May or you need advice on how to manage your own impulses to control. "(SOURCE: He's Scared, She's Scared: Understanding the Hidden Fears sabotage your relationships, Steven Carter and Julia Sokol - in bookstores everywhere)
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