Thursday, May 1, 2008

Online Dating 2day - Do You Think First Impressions Count?

Personally, I would say yes, even if you're the kind of person who takes no account of what you feel someone. To be perfectly honest, I think that the fears or doubts May you about someone, is generally correct and these feelings could cause problems for the relationship on the line.

Prendre acte de tout ce que vous mai pour se sentir quelqu'un au premier obstacle: le profil. Take into account your preferences about their smoke, their physical appearance ie they are fat or thin, their race, they're looking for a specific character that does not apply to you. All these can be considered as important factors.

The second obstacle: The first contact. How they find in the first e-mail or how they react cheers. One factor that may affect my feelings about someone is whether they are good conversationalists and are ready to do some work! Nothing is worse than trying to chat to a person who gives anything outside themselves or does not give you any leads to work with. Eg If they are interested in a few nasty e-mails to start things off and still expects you to do all the work and give nothing in return. Did they ask for your ID instant messaging from the outset that to me is an instant turn off! I always prefer to send email on any instant messaging services. I find sometimes intrusive instant messaging and I'm often disconnected to avoid being bombarded with messages!

The third obstacle: Contact by telephone. Sometimes, May you think you do not need to talk on the phone. It is up to you, but I do recommend you swap numbers anyway, preferably mobile. If your date will not give you his mobile but is waiting to take your own, beware! What if you're on time, but he / she has not turned? How can you contact? Think why it is not necessary for them to disclose their number. And if they do not respect your wishes about phoning or texting you? And if you worry or control are constantly on you? While talking with them, are you able to have a conversation with them or should it feel that you are doing all the work?

The fourth and final Threshold: The reunion. Do they match their profile image? Are you always able to have a decent conversation? Are they respectful of your personal space? Is it that you fancy? Have they lied about certain aspects of their appearance? That is to say they said they are blond, tall, attractive but in reality are dark, short, wears glasses and acne.

Est-ce que take note of first impressions and weigh the pros and cons before deciding to take matters further. I promise you, you will not regret it! :)

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